tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4506092133578493222024-03-13T21:04:10.279-07:00A First Lady's PlaceAnd let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works. Hebrews 10:24Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-29572126888185163092012-11-22T06:19:00.000-08:002012-11-22T06:19:00.106-08:00Happy Thanksgiving!<div style="text-align: center;">
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In the midst of turkey, stuffing, rolls, pie, tea, pop, football and mapping out your Black Friday routes, don't forget the reason and purpose for this holiday...to give thanks! The Bible reminds us to in all things give thanks (1 Thessalonians 5:18)! Offer thanks for all that you've experienced and gone through good or bad for it was the will of God for your life and those experiences should have drawn you closer to Him! Also offer thanks for what's to come and I'm so excited about what's to come!! Offer thanks for your family and friends. While you're offering thanks don't forget to think of others who may be less fortunate than you. If you're able to give back please do as every little bit helps! Finally offer thanks for our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ: it is because of what He did that we are!!</div>
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From my family to yours Happy Thanksgiving!!</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-18899633730440448692012-11-08T09:01:00.001-08:002012-11-08T09:01:23.776-08:00A Season of Transistioning<div align="center">
<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5EIUJMt20n8/UJvkqTLpk2I/AAAAAAAABxY/IK62NGqRO4M/s1600/Embraced+Women.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="111" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5EIUJMt20n8/UJvkqTLpk2I/AAAAAAAABxY/IK62NGqRO4M/s200/Embraced+Women.jpg" width="200" /></a>You know it is said that darkness comes just before the break of day. I consider this a fair warning that a situation or circumstance will usually get worse before it gets better. While this thought is a very valid observation, it is often a mere afterthought. I say that because while going through difficulties, strains, trouble, sorrow, and pain, you're in that moment wondering why, how, and what. You may even think when- as in when will it be over, but seldom does it dawn on you in the midst of the suffering you're going to come out better! It just doesn't equate the same: suffering + pain = triumph, hmmm. Well it doesn't equal out in the human/carnal mindset. See, we in our humanity dislike suffering and pain and we feel as if we will forever remain in that state especially when it comes to change, interruptions...transition! The saying goes the only thing that's constant in life is change- it's inevitable! Ministry wives know far too well that life for us is all about change, yet we struggle with this occurrence the most! I know I can easily get used to things flowing a certain way and will quickly become disturbed when things deviate from that flow. So how then do we deal with seasons of transitioning?<br />
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I'm currently reading a book by author and Bible study teacher Priscilla Shirer entitled <u>Life Interrupted</u>. This book is based on the story of Jonah and how in the midst of his path of comfort and the familiar God interrupts that path and summons him to a new path- one in which Jonah didn't want to take. Priscilla suggest that we look at interruptions differently. Instead of looking at interruptions as an inconvenience we should<br />
embrace interruptions in anticipation of what God is about to do in our lives. Maybe that interruption is the detour that will lead your life into an abundance of peace, joy and fulfillment! Maybe that interruption is the deviation that will save your life from heartache, pain and resentment! Have you ever been driving somewhere in a hurry because you were late and you ended up driving behind someone who was coasting down the street as if they had no where to go? Drove you crazy right? Just as you're about to go in a road rage you pass the scene of an accident and you think to yourself, wow, that could have been me. You realized had that slow poke not gotten in your way perhaps you could have been one of the victims in that accident! It is at that point that you begin to thank God for that interruption, because as irritating as that slow driver was, he or she was actually the interruption that saved you a lot of pain and perhaps even your life!<br />
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So the next time you're in a season of transition and let's face it there will be a next time...embrace it!</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-79280046743454422312012-11-08T06:18:00.000-08:002012-11-08T09:02:06.901-08:00There Are Great Rewards to Being a Pastor's (Ministry) Wife! <br />
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<span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">I’m always looking for great resources on the Internet
for Pastor/Minister’s Wives (P/M Ws), whether it be articles, video teachings, or
fellowships, conferences and retreat opportunities. Most of the information I
find is beneficial yet a lot of it dwells on the negative aspects of being a
ministry wife. My prayer for this blog and the fellowship ministry is to
provide a balance between the highs and lows of holding such a position. As it
seems the lows are brought to the forefront more than the highs. I’ve seen an
ex-pastor’s wife upload YouTube videos not only depicting the demise of her
unfortunate marriage but outright degrading and questioning the church. I
purchased an eBook written by what I perceived to be a pastor’s wife thinking
it would provide insight and comfort and the book was filled with the author’s
horrific accounts of being married to a pastor who lived a different life than
he preached. Needless to say she’s also an ex-pastor’s wife. While these ladies
are sharing their experiences and it may in fact be beneficial to someone I’m
afraid that the hurt and pain still apparent in their lives have left them
bitter, resentful, and angry. These feelings if expressed to a vulnerable P/M W
could garner confusion and discouragement. The key is to provide encouragement
for the lows and celebration for the highs- a balance that will deal with the
issues instead of skate around them, yet provide hope in times of despair. There
are great rewards to being a ministry wife! Some of the rewards are obvious and
some of the rewards require us to dig a little deeper for exposure. Take a look
at a few:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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personal relationship with God through Jesus not just because we’re
ministry wives. We must establish this relationship because we want to be
saved from our sins and redeemed back to God! But, when you are a ministry
wife, your relationship with God should become greater, because you’re going
to have to pray, fast, and build up your most holy faith in the Word in
order to endure in this position. You are better in every area of your
life when your relationship with God is firm and solid.<o:p></o:p></span></li>
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be pampered and catered to is a far cry from the truth. The truth is
ministry couples are called to serve! We are called to serve God, we are
called to serve our Pastor/Husbands and we are called to serve people! Serving
others require that we think less of ourselves and more about someone
else. When we choose to serve others we open up the portal for God to
bless us and make it conducive for service to be reciprocated back to us!<o:p></o:p></span></li>
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role. I must admit I did early on in this position. It is a lot of
pressure to have someone watch our every move, decision, trials and
triumphs. But the fact that others look at our lives as living examples of
how we are to be Christ-like reminds me of the lyrics in a Kirk Franklin
song that says we may be the only Jesus they see. Being in this position
causes us to be accountable to and for our actions which will in turn help
strengthen our walk with Christ! <o:p></o:p></span></li>
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and being a Christian example makes for a fulfilling and purpose filled
life! What an honor to be in such a position where we can impact the lives
of others in a positive and life changing way! The ultimate and fulfilling
reward for us is a guaranteed place in Heaven as we’ve accepted His gift
for our lives through salvation and relished in the many blessings He’s
bestowed upon us! <o:p></o:p></span></li>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-29816271922984578522012-10-30T07:12:00.001-07:002012-10-30T07:12:31.385-07:00Transparency: Who Do You Release To?<div style="text-align: center;">
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ups, downs, tosses and turns. Normally we get through life pretty steadily by
ourselves with the help of the Lord! There are however, other times when along
with God, we need another listening ear or shoulder to cry on. Many of us in
the position of being a Pastor/Minister’s Wife (P/M W) find that a listening
ear or shoulder to cry on may not be well within reach. A P/M W is a leader who
is looked upon with reverence and respect. While P/M W’s are human and we go
through many difficulties in life, we have to be careful who we release to. The
average layperson can’t handle or relate to some of the issues we go through,
especially if those issues are pertaining to the personal life of the Pastor’s
family. In order to maintain a certain level of respect between spiritual
leaders and lay members it’s often best to keep specific personal life details
to a minimum. So that often leaves a P/M W in search of the right person to
release to in times of crisis, trials, and errors. The chosen person should be
Godly, discreet, wise, and mature. Finding a person with these characteristics
will insure that what is released will remain concealed from others to prevent
slander and gossip, is dealt with in a Godly manner to make sure his presence
is available to lead one to reputable answers, and is handled with wise and
mature counsel to present a safe and trustworthy place to come back to again.
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<b>God</b>: Who else knows us better than the one who fearfully and
wonderfully made us! God has a listening ear and he’s waiting for us to cast
our cares upon him, for he cares! Our intimate thoughts and concerns will be in
trusted care, never to be used against us but used to help us. Releasing to God
insures a guaranteed successful solution to any problem or issue. God’s love,
grace, and mercy towards us is always the welcomed calm and peace to any storm
that seeks to rage in our lives. Finally, God is readily available to us. We
can access him day or night, 365 days of the year! </div>
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most important person in our lives. Meaning we should be able to tell them our
dreams, aspirations, and desires as well as reveal to them our mistakes and
failures. As God intertwines are hearts as one there may be times when our
Pastor/Husband will sense the need for us to vent or release before we can even
approach them. We can trust that our Pastor/Husband have our best interest at
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P/M Wife</span></b><span style="font-size: small;">: As P/M Wives we are in unique positions and we
encounter unique situations. Another P/M wife can relate to the highs and lows
of being married to a minister of the gospel. Forming a sisterhood of support,
prayer, and encouragement will open the door of opportunity needed to connect
with someone else who can share insight and mentorship. More than likely </span>we've<span style="font-size: small;"> experienced or will experience some of the same things that will make for great
teachable moments. </span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-81639657004831214792012-10-26T11:00:00.000-07:002012-10-26T11:00:36.664-07:00Competing With The Church & Other Stuff!<div style="text-align: center;">
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conferences, business meeting, counseling sessions, hospital visits, etc. are all
appointments that appear on the calendar of our Pastor/Minister husbands (P/M
H). There may be another calendar full of appointments for his
personal/non-ministry related items as well. While you try to support your P/M
H in all his endeavors and even accompany him on a majority of those
engagements, sometimes we wonder where we fit in! There have been times I’ve even
joked with my husband about being “penciled” in on his calendar. Competing with
your P/M H’s schedule is a common issue related to being married to a man of
the cloth and if this issue isn’t addressed I’m afraid it can cause some major
problems at home. Wives who find themselves competing with the church and other
stuff may become resentful and jealous towards the church and their husbands.
The church and other stuff your P/M H occupies his time with, although
important, may just be getting in the way of him spending quality time with
you- his wife. Pastor and Pastor’s Wife Elder Debra B. Morton, wife of Bishop
Paul S. Morton, authored a book entitled <u>Help, Lord, My Husband Has Two
Wives</u>. I can’t seem to find this book in print now, but I sure would love
to get my hands on it. As I can recall, the book is about the resentment Pastor
Morton found herself developing for the church because it was taking her husband
away from her so often. It was as if he was balancing his time between two
wives: her and the church, with the church getting the most of his time. </span></div>
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when you find yourself in competition with the church and other stuff taking
your husband away from spending quality time with you? Here are some helpful
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our husbands, we should pray specific prayers for areas in their lives where
they may be weak. So we might pray for God to help our husbands find a
balance between church and family. We can also pray for ourselves that God
will keep us from becoming resentful and help us with any isolation we may
feel. While it’s easy for us to try to take matters in our own hands,
issues like this are best resolved when God leads us and guides us on what
to do. Remember the Bible reminds us to be anxious for nothing but give
ourselves over to pray about everything (Philippians 4:6)!</span></li>
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intentions of our husbands to get so caught up in their callings and
duties that they forget about their family. It’s just that they’re so
passionate about what God has for them to do. We as wives have to be
understanding of the great responsibilities our husbands have to encompass
even if it means sacrificing quality time together. If we proceed to nag
and complain about the time our husbands spend away from home, we may
hinder them from operating at their full potential and our nagging and
complaining may also keep them from wanting to come home. The Bible
describes that it is better for a husband to dwell in the corner of a
housetop than with a nagging wife in a big house (Proverbs 21:9)!</span></li>
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be visited upon your husband’s acceptance of his calling and/or beginning
of marriage, it often isn’t or should be reviewed more frequently. Take
the time to discuss with your husband boundaries he can set so his
schedule doesn’t interfere with quality family time. You may want to
discuss office days and hours and vacation times your husband can set and
stick to as best as possible. You may want to set boundaries regarding
discussions of work at home. While it may be tempting for your husband to
bring his work home, it may just be best to leave his work on the job!
Finally be open for changes to occur as your husband has a unique position
that requires him to be available around the clock. Remember the Bible
reminds us to not get weary in doing well for in due season we will reap
if we faint not (Galatians 6:9)!</span></li>
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less spent together: take action and find ways to spend quality time with your
husband! Do you accompany your husband to conferences or other out-of-town
ministry engagements? Well, use that down time when he’s not preparing of
course, to plan something special. Better yet, stay an extra day after and
enjoy the city/town you’re in together! Since his weekends are pretty full, why
not plan a weekday outing? Or do like I plan to do and wisk him off for a
weekend getaway. I’m sure another willing minister will stand proxy for your
husband those few days. While you may have to plan unconventional moments
around your husband’s schedule, it can be done! Remember the Bible talks about
husbands and wives not depriving each other of intimate times except in times
of prayer and fasting, after which, they should come back together quickly to
diffuse any plots of the enemy (1 Corinthians 7:5)!</span></span></li>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-82318386495191454852012-10-24T13:51:00.001-07:002012-10-24T13:51:37.169-07:00More Posts Coming...<div style="text-align: center;">
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I know it has been a loooooooooooooooong time since I've posted to this blog and I do apologize for the neglect! In addition to life being busy, God has been busy with me. He's been shaping, molding, purging, cutting back and cutting off in and through me. And the journey is not complete. He is making me into what he wants me to be! While a lot of this transformation doesn't feel good, believe me, it's all good because when I come out, I'll be so much stronger, wiser, better (come on Marvin Sapp)!! In the midst of this extreme makeover I've been directed to deactivate some activities and to reactivate some activities. I had to deactivate my Facebook account, deactivate my beauty blog, deactivate my mind, and deactivate my heart! I have to reactivate my Word life, my prayer life, and my devotional life to God so he can continue to do a good work in me. He has a great task for me to do and it's going to take my total devotion to him in order to accomplish the goal. So, I'm going to let you in on this journey with me and prayerfully it will help you also. As we're all on a journey to greatness...so stay tuned!!</div>
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Hey Beauties- so I've been slacking in offering you inspirational posts! And in the day and time we're living in...we need some inspiration! How easy is it for us to get caught up or lost in life's circumstances and tragedies; dramas and upheavals; disappointments and losses, only to realize we've eased away from God and the assignment He has for our lives. Ever felt unfulfilled, uninspired, or you just didn't give a darn- yep I said darn! You just merely existed, carrying on in life like a robot- doing your everyday routine, but not really accomplishing nothing! Have you ever cried out to God but it seemed like He had put your supplications in an automated messaging system and He hadn't yet gotten back to you? What an empty and lonely feeling, especially if you've ever encountered his presence! Well, I've been there and I'm sure you have too, if you're not there now and I'm here to encourage myself and you in the Lord!</div>
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So, what's the solution? How can you find that fulfillment, peace, and joy that you once had? Well, I'm glad you asked, because it's so simple and the answer is well within your reach: look up! Yep, look up! Look up and realize you're not alone! Look up and realize God is and has been right there all along! You couldn't see him, because you've had your head hung down and with a hung down head you drag your hope and will down also! But let me remind you to always look up to Jesus who is the author and finisher of your faith! Let me also remind you to look to the hills- that's where all your help comes from. God promised he would never leave you nor forsake you! He'll be there to the end because he sticks closer than a brother! In other words, when you find you've lost your place in this world, find your way back to him!</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-79998701021345368092011-05-18T06:58:00.000-07:002011-05-18T07:01:56.993-07:00First Lady/Elect Lady Duties<div align="center"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-oQbStZQpl8U/TdPRA_I9qRI/AAAAAAAAAIo/4ll_dCvj4nw/s1600/Godsway.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" j8="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-oQbStZQpl8U/TdPRA_I9qRI/AAAAAAAAAIo/4ll_dCvj4nw/s1600/Godsway.jpg" /></a></div><br />
<span id="goog_1848519553"></span><span id="goog_1848519554"></span><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It is often asked of me what my duties or responsibilities as First Lady/Elect Lady (FL/EL) are. Well my answer may differ from another FL/EL as I feel ones duties and responsibilites are more than likely established by ones Pastor/Husband, based on ones gifts, talents, and abilities given by Holy Spirit. Some FL/EL prefer to be very active in ministry and their duties/responsibilities can range from Women's Department Leader to Assistant or Co-Pastor. Some FL/EL prefer to be less active in ministry and is content with just supporting their Pastor/Husband and participating in a few church ministries. </span><br />
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</span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-rugoqj548g0/TdPRDU0AYnI/AAAAAAAAAIs/u9VCJUS_4iA/s1600/pray108.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" j8="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-rugoqj548g0/TdPRDU0AYnI/AAAAAAAAAIs/u9VCJUS_4iA/s200/pray108.gif" width="161" /></a><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I will say that a FL/EL should always have the task of praying for her Pastor/Husband and the church. She should be willing to listen, give sound spiritual advice, and love unconditionally as Christ does! She should be willing to lend a helping hand to those in need, provide comfort to those who are hurting, and encouraging to those in dispair. She should be mindful that she is representing Christ, her Pastor/Husband, and the church. She should teach and encourage the saints to worship and praise the Lord. Most importantly, she should have a committed personal relationship with the Lord, exemplified by a consistent prayer, Word, and Holy lifestyle. Everything else will fall into place if those fundamental foundations are established first!</span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What is your opnion and/or advice regarding this subject? How were your duties and responsibilities established for you?</span></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-62209506414467330372011-05-17T07:58:00.000-07:002011-05-18T09:02:26.807-07:00Extra Extra...Read all about it!<div align="center">It is always my pleasure to bring you exciting offers. I love to share great ideas and deals, especially when they're tailor made with us PWs in mind. I am a part of a blog called The Pastor's Wife Speaks. This blog offers encouragement and empowerment and has gives PWs a platform to display their many gifts and talents. The blog owner, a published author, is giving, yes giving away her latest book in ebook form- how awesome is that! Her name is Jennifer AlLee and the title of the book is <em>The Pastor's Wife.</em> I will be reading this book and doing a review here on my blog, but in the meantime, check out this <a href="http://thepastorswifespeaks.blogspot.com/2011/05/pastors-wife-novel-free-ebook-now.html">link</a> to get your very own copy today. <em></em></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-72142342009113957392011-05-10T08:30:00.000-07:002011-05-10T08:30:40.855-07:00More Posts Coming Soon!<div align="center">First off, I see we have a follower, hey Patricia, so glad you've stopped by! She faithfully serves an awesome First Lady here in my local area: Pastor Ressie Sharpe of <a href="http://www.newnessoflifechristiancenter.org/index0.html">Newness of Life Christian Center</a> in Tarboro, NC! </div><div align="center"><br />
</div><div align="center">So, I apologize for my lack of posts here on this blog. I was so busy with school, work, home, church, and my other many endeavors! But I'm so happy that school is done and I'll be taking off from that for a while, so I'll have time to tend to this blog more. Great things are about to be unfolded with this blog as well as locally so be on the look out and pass the word about this blog!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-34155957402111263212011-02-28T12:14:00.000-08:002011-02-28T12:14:38.693-08:00Whew......I'm tired! Not to complain or anything, but so much has been going on since the first of the year! I do apologize for the lack in posting however keeping up with my duties as a wife (pw), mother, employee with a new position, school, church, a move, two blogs, youtube channel, and facebook page can be quite overwhelming. <br />
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The word for today is BALANCE! People often say, "I don't know how you do it." I can't begin to take credit for any of the strength, grace, mercy, and support God provides for me- it's all HIM!! I do have a great support system in first of all my husband. Since he doesn't work a traditional 9-5 like I do, he is more flexible in assisting me with a lot of things. Also, my mother-in-law and other in-laws for that matter offer as much support as they can. Finally and on occasion, the wonderful church family God has given us also chip in if we ask them (which isn't much)! So we're blessed. <br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-R3qBPUJeFw4/TWwBuvw-coI/AAAAAAAAAE0/R9ddlmHptTg/s1600/balance.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" l6="true" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-R3qBPUJeFw4/TWwBuvw-coI/AAAAAAAAAE0/R9ddlmHptTg/s1600/balance.jpg" /></a></div>Still, my house can be more organized and tided. I'm barely making some school assignment deadlines. The hubby and kids have mentioned at times that I spend less time with them. So how do I balance it all? How do you balance it all? What do you do when there doesn't seem to be enough time in the day to accomplish all you set out to do? Join in this discussion and share your little balancing act secrets.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450609213357849322.post-90334064077487863812011-01-03T08:22:00.000-08:002011-01-03T08:22:36.460-08:00Welcome & Yes Another Blog!Happy New Year!! So let it be known that I really like to blog- hence another blog! I've always loved to write and felt I expressed myself better this way! <br />
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My first blog <a href="http://kladycosmetics.blogspot.com/">Beauty & Inspirations</a> is such a wonderful expression of my passion for beauty- makeup, hair, nails, bath and body, fragrance, and fashion- and inspiration- I love to inspire others, that I thought I'd start this blog to let you in on my other passion- being a pastor's wife (pw)! I want to be able to offer encouragement & lessons learned on this tedious journey. This blog is actually an extension of a vision God has given me to launch a local pastor's wives fellowship as a means of support and sisterhood as it's needed. <br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_AGJJ2lcTPBA/TSH3lsDv-wI/AAAAAAAAACM/wcmrHSqDaxM/s1600/AFLPlogo.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="199" n4="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_AGJJ2lcTPBA/TSH3lsDv-wI/AAAAAAAAACM/wcmrHSqDaxM/s200/AFLPlogo.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">My goal for this blog is to also provide support and sisterhood and to allow others to a peak into the highs and lows associated on this journey! </div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501546048985218122noreply@blogger.com1